FAMILY COACHING
Discover Who You Are—Lead with Purpose
A strong family starts with a strong leader. Our coaching helps you uncover your core values, purpose, and identity so you can confidently shape your family's vision and legacy.
Overcome Blocks
Embrace Truth
Live with Purpose
One-on-one coaching can help you overcome obstacles.
Feeling stuck? You’re not alone. Negative emotions, limiting beliefs, and the fear of not being “enough” can hold you back—keeping you from leading your family with confidence and clarity.
But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Our one-on-one coaching helps you identify the false beliefs weighing you down and move toward the truth of who you are. When you step into your true identity, you unlock the freedom to lead fearlessly and build the family legacy you desire.
Your greatest joy is on the other side of your deepest fear. Let’s take that step together.
Family Identity Coaching is a powerful tool for deep inner healing, helping us step into our true selves with clarity and confidence. I’ve both witnessed and personally experienced its non-coercive, vision-shaping approach—one that releases fear, clears emotional roadblocks, and empowers us to lead our families with purpose. This work is life-changing.
My experience with my Family Identity Coaching was incredible! He helped me uncover new insights and healing that allowed me to step more fully into my God-given design. I deeply appreciated his attentiveness, wisdom, and the thoughtful questions that led to powerful realizations. This journey has been a true gift!
1. Book your coach
2. Purchase your 60-minute session
3. Begin your journey of transformation
Ben Langhofer
Ben Langhofer’s life story is one of identity, redemption, and calling. Born with a chromosomal variation, facing sterility, walking through adoption, and later becoming a single father, Ben discovered that purpose often grows out of pain. His journey awakened a passion to help others understand who they are, what they stand for, and the legacy they are meant to build.
Today, Ben is an author of five books, a Certified DISC Trainer, and a Certified Coach/Speaker through the John Maxwell Leadership Organization. His work blends empath
y with practical leadership, guiding families into clarity, connection, and intentional culture.
As the founder of Family Handbook, Ben led the creation of the first digital framework that helps parents identify and memorialize the pillars of their family—what he calls their Cathedral. His mission is simple: to inspire families to live with purpose today so their children and grandchildren can stand on the foundation they built
phillip kelley
Phillip Kelley is a nationally recognized speaker, executive coach, and leadership strategist dedicated to helping high-performance leaders pursue authenticity, vulnerability, and purpose. He is the founder of Purpose-Driven Coaching, Overcomer Academy, and Iceberg Leadership, equipping individuals and teams to lead from the inside out.
Phillip has served world-class athletes and leaders for years, including his work supporting NFL Chaplains through Athletes in Action and his tenure as Team Chaplain and Character Coach for the Kansas City Chiefs. He is the author of Divine Disturbance: Broken to Build and a contributor on NBC Kansas City, and is widely sought after as a keynote speaker, facilitator, and executive coach for elite coaches, athletes, and business professionals.
Beyond his professional calling, Phillip treasures his role as husband to Karina, step-dad to Jean, father to Caroline (18) and Maddy (15), and soon-to-be new dad, grounding his work in the values of family, legacy, and purpose
Jason Black
Jason Black is a coach who believes leadership starts at home. After more than a decade as a CEO and years coaching top performers around the world, Jason shifted his focus to what he believes matters most: helping individuals and families create clarity, connection, and purpose.
Through Black Light Consulting & Coaching, Jason has guided leaders across five continents, supporting organizations like Prudential, General Mills, and Lenovo in achieving breakthrough results. But beyond the corporate achievements, Jason is passionate about helping people discover their identity, strengthen their relationships, and build the kind of legacy their children and grandchildren can stand on.
His approach centers on whole-person growth—aligning belief, behavior, and purpose. Jason’s heart for transformation makes him a natural fit within our coaching platform as he equips families and leaders to live intentionally and lead with confidence.
Jesse Allen
Jesse is passionate about coaching visionary leaders who need help clarifying their calling and applying the necessary action steps to achieve their vision.
Jesse holds a master's degree in ministry, entrepreneurship, and innovation. He is also a certified leadership coach, speaker, and trainer through the John Maxwell program. As an author, he has written four books and co-founded a Christian non-profit ministry focused on discipleship.
Furthermore, he has played a key role in establishing both a house of prayer and a local church community.If you are looking for a coach who can help you define your calling and encourage and equip you to fulfill your dreams, Jesse would be honored to assist you.